Monday, September 14, 2009

two weeks

It's been a little CRAZY around here these days. Since I'm a little busy with Luca, Kaiya has been entertaining herself during the days quite well. She's such a good little helper...so eager and happy to help me. Both Caedmon and Kaiya have been good helpers for that matter. They are still in the hovering phase...always right there looking over my shoulder and asking lots of questions. They run to Luca's bassinet to give her a pacifier if I need them to....sometimes when I don't want them to if I would rather have her settle herself from crying. I've listened to Kaiya sing so sweetly to her sister through the baby monitor trying to settle her from crying...it's just too sweet to make her stop. We've been busy with lots of visitors stopping by to meet Luca. Our church also brought meals for a couple weeks which was so so helpful.

My friend Kristy and her daughter MadisonMy friend Nicole During Luca's second week, three out of the five of us got a terrible virus. I was one of them. Not good timing at all. I had the worst sore throat I've ever had and a fever for two days. Caedmon missed a day of school and we all stayed home from church. So hard when all you want to do is take care of your baby and you can't. "God was my helper and strength" and He carried us through. Praise God, Kevin was one that didn't get it and he stepped in and took over with most of the feedings...especially at night so I could get some rest.


Caedmon had his first soccer game that same weekend. I was sad I had to miss it, but excited when I heard he scored three goals even when he didn't feel the greatest.Being sick certainly set me back as far as keeping up with things around the house including "Mount Laundry" staring at me on a daily basis. Luca's projectile vomiting has also continued on an almost daily basis. I know...this picture is gross, but I wanted to remember just how bad it was. It's hard to tell in the picture, but the liquid goes from the dishwasher all the way to the highchair. It's a bit a frightful thing when it happens...she's like a ticking time bomb. You never know when she'll fire. And when it does happen...(sometimes in the middle of the night when you can't see straight)...there is so much to clean up....her, me, the couch, the chair, the floor, her clothes, my clothes...exhausting...hard to believe that such a little thing can do so much damage. ;)


Her doctor subscribed a medication which helped it go from every day to every other day. Then when she came down with what seemed like a cold (congestion, unable to breath and sleep very well at night), he suspected that she was having an allergic reaction to the milk. We've switched her to soy formula and have noticed a big change.


Did God allow me to wait so long for her to help me get through these first few weeks? I believe it could be true...while going through the sicknesses, lack of sleep, housework stacking up, vomit cleaning, giving up "me" time and just trying to make it through another day...I think God, knowing my personality and what I can handle, prepared me a bit for this time. Feeling discouraged at times I didn't despair because of the reminder of the precious gift he has placed in my arms and the process it took to get to this point. This too shall pass..these days are priceless...not perfect, but priceless. I don't want to forget a single moment. How can you resist those cheeks!!

Luca had her first Doctor appointment at two weeks. She was six pounds thirteen ounces and 19 1/2 inches already. I couldn't believe she had gained so much in spite of the vomiting which was good.So proud and such a great "big"sister. She tells everyone we meet...even strangers...about her new baby sister. Caedmon loves his baby sister too. He talks to her constantly reminding her that he is her brother. He loves that he gets to sit next to Luca in the van and gives her the pacifier if she fusses.He thought is was just hilarious that mommy actually let him hold Luca standing up. He was so giddy and couldn't stop laughing. Luca looks a bit concerned.Finally feeling better again and so relieved to take care of my little sweetheart again.My mother-in-law came a day and was SOOOOO very helpful...helping with ironing, cleaning and entertaining Kaiya. She also blessed us with a meal and a bushel of canned peaches. Thanks, Mom!The other grandma makes frequent stops at our place to help out and hold Luca. She stopped in the same day. Kaiya was in heaven with two grandmas. Labor Day Weekend 2009Cousins Shannon & Dryce

We had more visitors come Labor Day weekend. I had relatives stop by that were in town from southern Indiana.

aunt Jean aunt SueMy cousin Trina and her twins from Kansas were in town...so good to see her!On Labor Day, we went to Kevin's parents house for the afternoon. It was Luca's first time at Grandma & Grandpa B's house.

kisses from Aunt Sarahrelaxing with Grandpa B.Playing baseball with EastonLincoln was so proud of this snake he found and wanted to show it off to everyone.Grandma time

Cousin Easton and Luca

Wednesday, August 26, 2009

One Week

You're one week old today. I wish I could stop time during these precious early days of your life. This is my very favorite stage. I can't get enough of you...I've fallen in love. I love your sweet smells and the sweet sounds you make. I love your kisses on my face. You are a joy...such a easy baby so far. You rarely cry. You are still eating very well and fast...two and a half ounces and usually done in fifteen minutes. You are pretty consistent with a three hour schedule during the day. You are still a spitter...we keep the burp cloth close by. The once a day projectile vomiting has seemed to lessen. The laundry seems to have doubled though. You are still sleeping a lot, but have several wake times during the day where you open your eyes wide and follow my voice. You sleep well at night. Usually eating every four or five hours. Daddy helps with the night feedings too. You like to be swaddled tight in a blanket to sleep. You're starting to like your sponge baths better. We've caught glimpses of your sweet smile.

Your brother and sister adore you and are always concerned about you. We are rejoicing over your first week of life, Luca Bella

Tuesday, August 25, 2009

First Days at Home

Luca was welcomed on her very first day at home by family eager to meet her. Kevin's parents, his brother's family and my parents came that Friday evening to celebrate her homecoming. Meeting Aunt Sarah and cousin Easton

Cousin Easton & Caedmon

Mama taking a break to feed you...fills so good to have you home!!

Grandpa S. holding baby Luca
Kevin's mom brought supper for everyone. What a blessing and so yummy! Thanks Mom!!

Uncle Curt & Luca

Grandma & Grandpa B. getting to know baby Luca.

Your first days at home have been filled with lots of attention from big brother and sister. They are so eager to help, hold you & watch mommy take care of you. They have so many questions...and I love answering them. They hover a bit, but I adore seeing their excitement and love for you...their new baby sister.


The bassinet is finally filled. =) You sleep in mommy and daddy's room. I like having you so close for now.

Hovering again....you are so loved, my sweetness!

More visitors...cousin Rylie.

Cousin Maci So many have been praying for you. You were loved before we even met you.

I really wanted to make it to church that first Sunday when you were only four days old. It was tough getting everyone ready and out the door, but we did it. What a joy to take you to church to see all the people who had been praying for you...especially many praying just the week before when we weren't sure how the week would unfold. Holding you in my arms that day and worshipping the God who gave you to us was indescribable!
Family picture before church
By the time we got everyone home, made lunch and cleaned up it was already after three...wow...an exhausting day. Naps were a must. Daddy took his nap with his two little princesses.

Baby Luca in the doll crib. Wide awake after bath time.
More visitors on Monday Cousins Heather and Suzy visited for the day and brought a meal. What a joy! Thanks for the yummy food and great conversation...a tremendous blessing!